A Reconciling Church
Willits United Methodist Church is a Reconciling Church. We affirm that we are all God’s Children—regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, social status, economic status, or mental or physical ability. We strive to be an open and welcoming church to all whom God sends us. We acknowledge that we will fall short sometimes, but we strive, with God’s help, to live up to the motto, “Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors.”
What is an “informed ally?”
An informed ally is someone who actively supports and advocates for a cause, community or individual while having a strong understanding of the relevant issues, challenges, and perspectives involved. Being an informed ally means going beyond passive support—it requires ongoing learning, listening, and taking meaningful action.
1. An informed ally is educated and aware: Take time to educate yourself on the history, struggles and current realities of the group or cause you support.
2. An informed ally is an active listener: Prioritize listening to the voices of those directly affected rather than judging or thinking about how you will respond.
3. An informed ally is willing to unlearn and re-learn: Do some self-exploration to see and recognize biases and misconceptions and be open to correcting them.
4. An informed ally uses privilege for good: If you have privilege in a given situation, use it to amplify marginalized voices rather than speak over them. “Using privilege for good” means recognizing the advantages you may have due to your identity or social position and using that influence to support and uplift those who face systemic barriers or discrimination.. It involves leveraging your voice, resources and access to create positive change while ensuring the focus remains on those most affected.
5. An informed ally takes action: Don’t just talk about support but take real steps, such as advocacy, donations (locally, Trevor Project, Human Rights Campaign, Rainbow Youth Project, Stand in Pride), or direct assistance. Don’t assume you know what is needed; ask what is needed.
6. An informed ally respects boundaries: Allyship is not about being a savior but about standing in solidarity.